by
Claire D. Hutchins
Vindicating! Female
orgasm has always been a topic that has interested me. Probably because it
was only by accident that at age 20 (I'm now 35 - almost 36), I stumbled
upon some information on the role of the clitoris in female orgasm. Up until
that point, I didn't even know what a clitoris was - and I'm female!! Why
was it not mentioned in sex education courses? Why had my parents never told
me about it when they told me about sex? Why did none of my girlfriends know
about it?
I couldn't believe that I was so in the dark about my own sexuality. Even
though the information was "out there," in many ways it wasn't. It seems
that what I, and everyone I knew, thought was that women had orgasms the
same way men did: through sexual intercourse (no hands involved).
Needless to say, my discovery of the clitoris led to further reading and
my first orgasm! It is difficult to describe HOW HAPPY I felt about it. Not
only did I now know that there was nothing wrong with me (I could have orgasms),
but I felt more complete as a person because I was now able to experience
something (quite pleasurable) that everyone else seemed to be experiencing
except for me.
After that, I never had trouble being orgasmic with a partner. I think because
I have always, almost instinctually, applied pressure to that area during
intercourse (method suggested in
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
). Doing
so seemed quite natural; it made me have an orgasm very quickly.
But, what gets me is that many of my female friends, now in their mid thirties
like myself, continue to have sex without orgasms. Some tell me that they
don't care about orgasms that much. Others that they have NEVER had one and
would never learn how to have one on their own, while others simply could
not tell their partners what they need, or "even worse," touch themselves
in front of their partner during sex; so many of them go without and sometimes
even fake it.
But, what many women fail to realize is that it is THEIR OWN ATTITUDE ABOUT
SEX that is preventing them from having orgasms. In order to be orgasmic
you've got to come to terms with your body: you need to learn what you've
got down there and how it works on your own. Can you imagine being with a
guy who had no idea about his own sexual anatomy, what to do with it or how
to have an orgasm? You also have to be willing to play a little more active
role in sex: get in positions where you can move your hips and easily reach
your clitoris (if he likes the missionary position, you can always switch
once you've had `your' orgasm).
I say this book
(Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
) is
vindicating because the author, and many of the people she quotes feel exactly
like I do. That is, they agree that it is more satisfying for both parties
involved if the woman has an orgasm easily and quickly "every time." This
is reassuring for me because, many other women I know and talk to about sex
seem to prefer to have an orgasm once in a blue moon in order to uphold the
myth that the "right man" will use his "superior sexual skill," to knock
their socks off without their having to take any initiative. It might be
a nice fantasy, one that society clearly perpetuates, but in the meantime
they're going to have a lot of "not so great" sex. No wonder a majority women
say they would rather go out to dinner than have sex!~An Amazon Reader
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
Book Description
Is sex more trouble than it's worth? Are you too slow? Do you rely excessively
on prolonged (even painful) intercourse, oral sex or vibrators? Is your orgasm
hit or miss?
Now with this bold but simple 3 step program, any woman - YOU - can achieve
orgasm without difficulty during sex. IMPOSSIBLE? Not if you follow the quick
and easy formula you will learn in this book.
Now there is hope for any woman suffering the agonizing frustration of a
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and for all crushes the dogma that achieving orgasm must take longer for
a woman than it does for a man.
Stop blaming your partner for being too fast, inept and uncaring. Five Minutes
to Orgasm describes in frank, detailed terms a method for making female orgasm
the natural, effortless outcome of each and every lovemaking experience,
and frees him from slavery to the female orgasm.
From the Back Cover
For women only -- Is Sex More Trouble Than It's Worth? Are you too slow,
excessively reliant on prolonged (even painful) intercourse, oral sex or
vibrators? Is your orgasm hit or miss? Now with this bold but simple 3- step
program, any woman can achieve orgasm without difficulty during sex. Impossible?
Not if you follow the quick and easy formula you will learn in this book.
Here at last is hope for any woman suffering the agonizing frustration of
a too-slow, unreliable or nonexistent orgasm. Five Minutes to Orgasm once
and for all crushes the dogma that achieving orgasm must take longer for
a woman than it does for a man. Ladies, don't blame your partner for being
too fast, inept and uncaring. Five Minutes to Orgasm describes in frank,
detailed terms a method for making female orgasm the natural, effortless
outcome of each and every lovemaking experience, and helps women overcome
this common problem that causes so much happiness in many relationships.
This is the only book that fully explains how to reach orgasm faster during
intercourse and shows you step-by-step how to do it. Have fun learning the
quick and easy formula. It will help supercharge your relationships and maybe
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READER'S COMMENTS ON
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
As a young married woman, I had given
up trying to improve my sexual response during intercourse. My husband and
I have tried everything to make me reach orgasm and have failed. UNTIL NOW.
This book worked for me and for us as a couple. It will work for you too,
if you fall into one of the following categories:
If you can reach an orgasm during intercourse, but it takes so long you and
your partner end up more frustrated than satisfied, this book is for you.
This book will teach you how to speed up your orgasmic response. The formula
will give you the option of having quickies or having all night romantic
encounters. IT'S UP TO YOU.
If you have orgasms during masturbation, but fail to reach orgasm consistently
during sex, then Five Minutes to Orgasm can help. You will learn how to use
that orgasmic ability during lovemaking sessions in order to reach orgasm
more efficiently than you ever thought possible.
If you've never reached orgasm at all, the author gives advice on how to
masturbate and how to reach the frame of mind it takes to reach orgasm. In
other words, how to quit dwelling on your FAILURE and achieve success. From
there you will go on to learn how to reach orgasm during intercourse.
The only type of woman who would be disappointed with this book
(Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
), is the woman who is knowledgeable,
skillful, and orgasmic. The book's purpose is NOT to teach you to be a better
lover, teach your partner to be a better lover, or teach a man how to bring
you to orgasm. This book is not about foreplay techniques, sexual positions,
or flirting, or any of the other thousands of suggestions that pass for orgasm
techniques. It is one specific formula (made of three steps) for the purpose
of reaching orgasm faster and easier.
Men who are tired of waiting on their women to have a climax or who have
just given up would be happy to read this book. They are no longer saddled
with the burden of being the great lover that brings a non-orgasmic partner
to orgasm.
If you fit one of the above categories that would enjoy this book, I suggest
you give it a shot. We did, and we're much happier in our sex lives than
ever before.~A Reader
RE:
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
I caught an episode of "Lucky Louie" on
HBO about the Big O. Louie's wife accidentally has her first orgasm. But
when they try to recreate the magic, Kim's orgasm eludes them. Since it took
Kim 37 years to "unlock her box," Louie wants to figure out a formula so
she can have consistent orgasms. Of course, they weren't able to repeat the
"magic" because Louie was trying to "make" her orgasm by frantically thrusting.
I kept thinking all during the episode - THEY NEED THIS BOOK! If you want
(and need) reliable, consistent orgasms, without a lot of time, pain and
effort, then buy this book and use the technique. It's easier than you ever
believed possible and such a simple solution!~Dallas Reader
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
I bought this
book hoping to learn more about how to make sure that my wonderful wife will
be very satisfied every time. Claire Hutchins definitely has strong and well
supported position about women's sexuality and certain associated issues.
I agree with her that it is not necessary for men to be fully responsible
for the sexual satisfaction of their partners (any more). Intimacy should
be fun, pleasant and an opportunity to get rid of stress and tension not
the opposite. I am thankful to the author for encouraging and empowering
my sweetheart to feel more in charge of her orgasms than she used to. Similar
thing happened with me after I easily became multi-orgasmic thanks to the
bestseller scientificlly guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex.
You can hardly imagine what burden will fall from your shoulders when you
learn from such books how to have orgasms at will and can finally focus on
the rest- foreplay, different positions, and truly lovemaking that makes
the bond between the partners stronger and deeper. Ms. Hutchins has paid
a lot of attention to psychological and mental aspects that may liberate
women from stereotypes and brain washing and of course provides her method
which may be really something new for less experienced women. Overall, this
is a book which has something to offer to both men and
women.~Brandon
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
This book
is a must have for every women. My only regret was that I didn't find it
20 years ago.~Susan
RE:
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
I have always had to have oral sex in order to have an orgasm, until my partner
convinced me to try the formula in this book. This book takes the unusual
point of view that it's not my partner's responsibility. I resented this
idea at first, but the author made her point. I really liked this book for
the very reason that it offers a simple solution to a common problem. The
whole point of the book is that women are responsible for their own orgasms
and that it is not necessary to rely on a man to "give" us one. This is a
new approach. The ability to reach a "quick" orgasm if you're a woman is
rarely addressed in those technical books which require long hours trying
to learn a technique that is too complicated. That's why "Five Minutes to
Orgasm" is unique -- its simple, straightforward and doesn't require any
outside mechanism (like a vibrator).~Charlotte
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
Even though achieving orgasm through intercourse is often referred to as
a woman's problem, the men in their lives also suffer. Disinterest in sex
is an unenviable part of the experience of many couples. According to our
culture, women must reach orgasm, and it is the duty of their male partners
to give it to them. That ends up being too much pressure on both. What is
the answer? Most people don't need extensive sex therapy or drawn out lovemaking
sessions. Most of us don't have the time, especially in an established
relationship.
This book helps couples find time for a satisfyiing sex life with a quick
simple formula that will work for most women every time, especially if they
have experienced orgasm through masturbation or otherwise. If they haven't
the book gives guidance for that too. How odd that today many women still
depend on the expertise of their male sex partners, vibrators, or performance
of oral sex. This books seeks to liberate women once and for all. I recommend
it to any woman who is sexually frustrated during intercourse. By removing
the mystery from sex and especially by making it easier for women to achieve
orgasm, couples can concentrate on all-night lovemaking sessions at their
discretion and not because it is a requirement to get her "off."~Josey
RE:
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
I've always used this technique. But I always felt bad about it. I've absorbed
the cultural messages that as a woman, I should come when a man is doing
what makes him come. It's so ridiculous! That's what makes him come! In fact,
I think men should start feeling bad about themselves that they "almost"
come when I do this. ;) (Kidding!) It's such a relief to see the technique
described and discussed as acceptable and welcomed by so many people. Thanks.
Thank goodness I can quit worrying about it.~Elizabth
RE:
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
What I liked best about this book is that it treats women as if their bodies
will react in predictable ways if the right buttons are pushed, and the author
doesn't leave pushing the correct buttons solely up to the man. Why indeed,
are women so varied in plumbing and psychology that many have dificulty achieving
orgasm at all and yet almost all men achieve orgasm quite easily (at least
while young)? Answer - they are NOT! Women are entitled to achieve orgasms
just like men. You don't have to feel self-conscious. Just learn to face
sex without fear and with a new measure of confidence you can learn with
this book.~Sweetie
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
Spice it up! Learn this great new three
step technique that will spice up your sex life. If you and your partner
have fallen into the same love making styles, or if you are facing unchartered
waters, i. e., a new boyfriend, this book can help you feel more adventurous
and make you orgasmic with anyone!~Tui
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
If, after years of being married, you
are sort of happy with your sex life, you might want this book and become
VERY happy with your sex life. Most of us settle for letting our sex lives
wane, especially after years of marriage. But even after years of having
sex with the same person, there are many ways to improve our sex lives, and
if you are like most of us, we've given up on trying to have sex very often.
Sometimes it is just too time consuming, so we don't even get started. Claire
Hutchins explains how to enjoy sex for the rest of your life without it turning
into a major romantic encounter that, quite frankly, we just don't want to
do every night. This book helped us face the reality that sex doesn't always
have to be romantic. That it's a need we can all enjoy fulfilling without
a major production every time.~A Reader
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
This book is full of information about the subject of female sexuality and
an easy step by step guide to achieve the goal of reaching orgasm whenever
and wherever one wants. In order to reach this physical pleasure Hutchins
encourages the reader to be selfish and exclude other peoples opinions,
especially the common myth of putting men in charge or their partners' orgasms.
The text is funny and charming and every woman can benefit from it no matter
if getting an orgasm is a problem for them or not. It opens a door to the
woman's world and any man who wants to improve his lovemaking can benefit
from reading the book as well.~Jack
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
participated
in one of Hutchins's surveys, so I'm prejudiced in the author's favor. This
book is written for women who have trouble reaching orgasm during intercourse.
It presents a simple, to-the-point way to solve that problem. If you are
looking for books on romance or technique, this is not it. It presents the
problem, then shows you how to solve it.
I don't want a man to "lead" me to or "make" me orgasm! We don't use the
same language when it comes to men! With its focus on physiology rather than
psychology, this book shows women how to be responsible for their own orgasms.
Low libido is a real issue for many women, but for the vast majority of couples,
what is needed is not a pill, but respect for the differences in male and
female sexual response.
Some people just don't get it. But if you need and want sure-fire relief,
this is where you'll find it!~S.G.
RE:
Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
No magic needed! My husband used to have to pump at me all night so that
I could finally reach orgasm. Quite frankly we both just got kind of sick
of the whole thing. Add all that extra work to the fact that the chemistry
kind of fades anyway after a long term relationship and you have a recipe
for disaster - and a lot less sex! Now we can have sex anytime we want and
it can be as fast or as slow as we want.~Kimberli
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
I am so glad this book came along and has released me from being responsible
for my girlfriend's orgasm! I used to feel so guilty because she couldn't
come. Now I know it's not my fault. It's not her fault - it's not anybody's
fault, but she has learned to control her own orgasm response. We use this
technique in sex all the time and we both are a lot happier now.
~Joseph
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
This little book is an entertaining
and informative sex manual about how to have an orgasm without resorting
to oral sex, vibrators or extended male thrusting (to the point of exhaustion
for both partners). The author doesn't regurgitate the usual advice of teaching
your male partners what to do. She encourages the woman to take charge. The
female reaching orgasm shouldn't be hard work for either partner, which is
what a lot of sex manuals make it. Hutchins treats the female orgasm as it
really is, a biological function that every woman should be able to accomplish
without much effort. If it can work for me, it can work for anyone.~Sawyer
G.
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
I have been dating quite a few years and
was never able to orgasm satisfactorily without oral sex. In the past, I've
always broken up with someone who was not comfortable with oral sex (even
though I didn't always reciprocate)! Now, thanks to this book, I am able
to have orgasms during sex, every time, any time. If you have the same or
similar problem, you'll like it too.~Sharon
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
There's not a lot new you can say about sex, but happily this book has taken
a refreshingly different approach. The author takes techniques that we are
already familiar with and puts them into a simple three-step plan that guarantees
an orgasm every time. Brisk, to-the-point writing and innovative technique
make this a must-have book for any woman who has trouble achieving orgasm
during intercourse. I recommend it highly!~A Reader
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
What a relief! I was so happy to discover that I don't have to suffer the
pain of endless thrusting in order to reach an orgasm during intercourse.
Also, that most women are being stimulated clitorally whether they realize
it or not. Now I can get on with my sex life, enjoy sex and not have to fake
orgasm just to get it over with ~Paula
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
Sexual satisfaction is a real problem for many women: forty-three percent
of women, representative of all ages, experience sexual problems, including
1) a lack of desire; 2) inability achieving climax; 3) physical pain during
intercourse; and (4) not finding sex pleasurable, all of which are addressed
in this book. Many woman experience sexual blahs. Why?
According to our culture, women MUST have an orgasm, and it is the responsibility
of men to GIVE it to them. That results in too much pressure on both. Five
Minutes to Orgasm tackles a problem that few experts want to talk about,
but is, nevertheless, a problem in real-life relationships, that the men
in the lives of non-orgasmic women also suffer. What is the answer? Most
people don't need extensive sex therapy. They don't need long-drawn out
lovemaking sessions - few of us have time for searching for single-minded
solutions to our sexual problems.
Hutchins propounds her theories in these areas and backs them up with anecdotal
evidence. This book helps couples fight this problem with a quick and simple
formula that will work for most women every time. By removing the mystery
from sex and making it easier for women to achieve orgasm, couples can
concentrate on all-night lovemaking sessions at their discretion or enjoy
the occasional "quickie." Hutchins gives the reader an option that they can
use or discard. The message empowers women to take charge of their orgasm
response, and most importantly, enjoy orgasm EVERY TIME, if they so
choose!~Shelli
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Five
Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made
Simple
This book is very helpful for all those women out there who think there's
something wrong with them I was almost at the point of giving up hope altogether,
but, after reading a recommendation by an Internet sex therapist, I bought
this book, and it was one of the best buys of my life. It is easy to understand
and gets to the point without dilly-dallying around what amounts to nothing
more than relationship advice. I found it to be very educational. I have
learned more about my physiology and how to press the right buttons. It has
boosted my confidence in the bedroom. For women who have problems achieving
orgasm, I couldn't recommend it more. Thumb way up!~H.G.
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